EP #262 Stop “Balancing” Work and Life
Balance is impossible - and undesirable.
I left town thinking I’d get "refreshed” but realized I actually just got deeper into the important stuff.
This is how time off should be. If you’re only relieved when you’re away from the office, you’re missing something.
This isn’t the first time I’ve talked about how I don’t shoot for work/life balance but it’s the deepest dive.
I like to think about work life harmony instead.
It’s simpler. More realistic. And much more desirable.
This episode is all about why.
Have a generous rest of the week. 😀
What You'll Learn in Today's Episode:
Why balance is impossible
Why balance is undersiarable
The difference between work, life, and rest
How I’m the worst sleeper in the world
What is harmony
A metaphor with creatine
Reasons why you will need to be out of “balance”
Why it’s okay to think about work first
What is an “intrapreneur”
How the “perfect” routine doesn’t work
Why the desire for work/life “balance” is confusing
Why a good vacation might just be what you need
Quotes Worth Sharing:
“I used to be the worst sleeper in the world.” - Bob DePasquale
“I wasn’t doomscrolling before I went to bed.” - Bob DePasquale
“I like to talk about work/life harmony.” - Bob DePasquale
“I’m a very amateur drummer.” - Bob DePasquale
“Imagine, if your work, life, and rest complimented each other.” - Bob DePasquale
“It’s not always going to be perfectly balanced.” - Bob DePasquale
“Does the work you do make the life you live better?” - Bob DePasquale
“What are the ways your work can contribute to your life?” - Bob DePasquale
“I recommended working on work/life harmony on a daily basis.” - Bob DePasquale
“Decision fatigue is real - believe me.” - Bob DePasquale speaking about his former team
“Work/life balance is a myth.” - Bob DePasquale
Resources from Today’s Episode:
My Book - Personal Finance in a Public World
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